First 3Sum.

Are you thinking about having your first Threesome? Trust me you are not alone in this as a recent survey of swinging members showed that over 90% of members either have talk about 3sums with their partner and done something about it, or joined a personals site to meet couples seeking threesome sex contacts.

The thought of three people meeting up and getting all hot & sweaty has one hell of a pull but getting ready for a Threesome contact and making sure everyone has fun does need some preparation both physical & emotional.

Whether you are a couple or unicorn, although that old term is becoming a little outdated as it’s not hard to find singles anymore. But here we will offer some basic tips before you meet, when you meet and what happens afterwards.

Thinking About Threesomes.

OK lets first address the idea of having a 3sum and it starts by talking to your partner, obviously if a single person, then it’s easy, you know what you want and probably have some idea on your limits, but couples need set up some limits.

Having steamy sex fantasies when in bed with your partner, but taking these fantasies to another level and meeting someone you need to make sure you are both happy, that includes your third person too.

Its OK to talk about watching your male partner fucking another women, or having a guy fucking your wife, but would you really be happy about watching this in real !! This is what “could” happen, will happen if you don’t all talk before hand.

First Threesome

You’ve found a horny couple or single to meet for your first threesome, but have you fully planned it? Have you talked through possible ways the evening will go and are you ready for things to maybe change direction should everyone be happy.

A good safe guard is to have safe words in place so that things can either slow down a little, or maybe even come to a complete stop if for some reason someone along the meet isn’t happy about how things are going.

When you meet up remember that everyone is going to be on edge, so break the tension a little offer a drink maybe have some music going and perhaps even some porn running on the TV to make sure everyone knows what’s on the cards.

Remember its “FUN” its not something you should take too seriously maybe for all this is the first time meeting so if you have fun it’s something you will want to repeat and should something go wrong embrace it and have a laugh.

And Afterward ..

That night talk about how the threesome went, talk about something you weren’t keen on, and the things that really turned you on watching or doing with another.

Maybe think about other things you would like to try because now you’ve taken your naughty sex talk and fantasies to the next level and you’ve had one, where do you want to go next?

Try joining us and posting your own personals advert telling others about the types of threesomes you want. The more information you tell members in your personals advert the better the meets you will arrange. You can even join today for FREE so whats stopping you?