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Help for newbie threesomes & swingers

Are you new the swinging scene? is it something you've been thinking about and now want to turn your fantasies into realty? if so GREAT as swingers we love to see new members

If you are newbie swinging couples or singles then we've posted this page up just to offer some basic advice so that you don't make some of the more common mistakes that new members into the swinging scene can sometime make

First swingers health warning !! - Anyone that is considering joining a contacts or swingers website is you BOTH (assuming a couple) have to want swap / swing as pulling a reluctant person into the swinging scene will do NOTHING for your relationship and could very well harm it.

Also by joining a swingers website will NOT make a sexless relationship better, if you have a poor sex life now by introducing another couple or single person into your bedroom will NOT make your sex life better, again it could harm it.

All the couples here will already have a very good sex life and look towards swinging & threesome sex as a way of enhancing there sex lives NOT making it better

Ok so hopefully we've not scared you off and if so these tips will help you along the way into the swinging scene as it can be a little scary at first not knowing what other swingers will expect from you or the best way to approach members so here's just a few tips to help you along the way , but the thing to remember is members won't bite......well not unless you ask them too......... t

"By following these basic tips you'll soon be meeting with couples or singles and enjoying the swinging scene alone with thousands on other horny couples"

  • Profile, Don't rush it - Its not a race to get a profile up as fast as you can, so put some effort into and if you can't think what to say then spend some time looking around at some members swingers personals adverts then hopefully you'll have some ideas. But above all put some effort into it as a few lines will do nothing for your chances of getting members to contact you
  • Photos, photos and more photos - get the hint! a profile with no photos will get a poor response as members like to see what you look like and for many if the personals advert has no images they will not take them seriously and quite possibly ignore message from you. The photo doesn't have to show your face or even you in "action" but something is better than nothing at all
  • Get Involved - If you just sit around and wait for messages you could be waiting a while but members that get involved within the chatroom's & forums will be talking with other members / swingers and you can be sure once members get to know you and see your profile will want to meet up. Plus swinging is as much about the community as it about swapping partners
  • Contacting members - When you send a message to someone try putting a bit of effort into it as a one liner will do nothing to make the couple / swinger want to contact you. You don't have to write War'n'Peace but something other than " wanna meet for a shag" (yes thats one that was recently sent to me and the wife, needless to say it got deleted)
  • Newbie Swingers - if your new to the scene then till people there no status here and it doesn't matter if you've been in the swinging scene for 5 minute or 5 years but don't try to con others that you've been swapping for years, most experience swingers will be able to spot this and it could harm your chances of meeting with members
  • Boundaries - know just how far you want to go before you meet your first couple, if your not keen on going all the way then tell people this before you meet the last thing you'll want to do is start talking about how far you'll go when sat in someone house!

These are just a few tips that just cover the basics but the best way to learn is by reading what others are doing and you can access profiles, chatroom's & forums posting as a free member so why not just join up and have a look around, then put some thought into the type of swinging and profile you want to submit

But the golden rule is be honest! only post your own photos and give member the real low down on what your after and I'm sure you'll soon be meeting with members and having a great swapping & threesome times!

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